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promethean75 wrote:god i love this stuff. it's so overly-dramatic and formal.
phyllo wrote:Mags' work ethic and dedication are admirable. She is responsible and responsive. Her efforts made the site better.
Over the years, I have seen her unfairly criticized and attacked. It's not surprising that the situation got the better of her. That she managed to keep her composure in the past, shows her toughness.
Thank you for everything that you have done.
iambiguous wrote:phyllo wrote:Mags' work ethic and dedication are admirable. She is responsible and responsive. Her efforts made the site better.
Over the years, I have seen her unfairly criticized and attacked. It's not surprising that the situation got the better of her. That she managed to keep her composure in the past, shows her toughness.
Thank you for everything that you have done.
Basically, I have to concur with this. She has been attacked over and over again. And I have never really understood the basis of it. Other than that some members just didn't like her. And now with all the other moderators gone [aside from Dan?] moderation here at ILP is all the more problematic.
And, let's face it, with some that I call the Kids here, almost anyone's patience would be tried.
Ecmandu wrote:
Like I stated: I feel guilty.
MagsJ wrote:I think the petty belligerence, in recent months, was becoming an issue for me.. I’ve never heard that much bemoaning (from some here) in all my life, and it was becoming ridiculous and therefore tiresome, and handling those situations with wit was met with further belligerence.
I also think that too many personal issues were brought to the ILP table, and accommodation for these expected, and met with resentment when not.
This now does mean, that I have the choice to ignore the belligerent and those with issues, and interact with those that I have been happily doing so with.
See you on the boards..
Arcturus Descending wrote:Maybe wear a rubber band for awhile around your finger to remind yourself to stay out of your own way and especially that of anotherunless it is what you truly do not want.
phyllo wrote:I don't think that you should bother engaging in this.
Sure. It's completely up to you.MagsJ wrote:phyllo wrote:I don't think that you should bother engaging in this.
I will cease when I think that time has arrived Phyllo.. I am not you, I am not feeling what you are feeling about my engagement here.. this is not an obituary, where I can’t reply to others’ sentiments.
But there are some I won’t reply to or engage with, ok..
phyllo wrote:Sure. It's completely up to you.
Haterz are going to hate.
But what are you getting out of it?
MagsJ wrote:phyllo wrote:Sure. It's completely up to you.
Haterz are going to hate.
But what are you getting out of it?
..making the haterz recognise, recog recognise
I have no other intention, other than that, but it’s not really an intentional intention.. things that need to be said, should never be left unsaid, or time soon makes it obsolete and therefore moot.
phyllo wrote:If it makes you feel good to let it out, to vent, to let them know what you think ...
Then do it.
Don't expect to change their minds. They won't necessarily recognize.
MagsJ wrote:Deeming someone not philosophical is on par with deeming someone a troll..
MagsJ wrote:said simply because they do not agree with you, or don’t share the same mindset as you. I deal in real results, not strangers’ words on a screen.. we are simply in and from different worlds and backgrounds, but the smart would factor this in and adjust accordingly, but most don’t, because most aren’t smart.
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